Judgement, let’s get to tolerance

“Don’t judge me. You cannot handle half of what I have dealt with! There’s a reason I do what I do. There’s a reason I’m, who I am”. Dylan Glynn Jones

Judgement: A formal utterance of an authoritive opinion or an opinion so pronounced.

Tolerance: Sympathy or indulgence for beliefs or practices, differencing from or conflicting with one’s own.  

Now, there is an interesting topic “judgement” and, funnily enough it came up again only this week.  We are always reminded to be “non judgemental” and I am in agreement with that if we lived in a perfect world - that would be great.

The intention should be “not to judge others in a negative way”.  But we don’t live in a perfect world and things do happen to us, people will hurt us, let us down, not live up to our expectations, and abandon us. 

We do judge others and we will be judged.  Its part of the human way of thinking at this time, “I hope it changes”.  Until it does we have to find our way to see things more positively and people in a new light.

What if, instead of condemning the JUDGEMENT, we could start seeing that the act was the issue and not condemn the person in a negative way.  What, if instead, it was the start of a process that we view the action, not that person?  Opening your mind to a new possibility of seeing it as a way to grow, to change, to strengthen and to learn to love yourself with compassion as well as others and then you are coming back to ONENESS.

It doesn’t come naturally to begin with; it takes practice, persistence and patience to learn to live a life of LOVING EVERYONE, yourself included.  We live in a world where relationships are all around us and we have to find our way through the maze, to undo all the patterns of negativity that have been wired into us from years gone by.  It’s time to stop beating ourselves up because you haven’t achieved perfection.  But I would say this: “look at the way you see your life and if it is not working the way you wish it to, then it is time to look at it with fresh eyes and start the process of change”. Ros Clarkson.

Channeled Poem.....

Today, is a day I make changes.
Today, miracles will appear.
I feel the softness ALL around me.
Tears of joy will appear.
Release the floods of unsolved anger.
Surrender the pain and the guilt.
You are a child of Divine Power - LOVE, show us no doubt.

Channeled by Ros ~ Findingurwings.

The importance of healing LOVE to self.....

As human beings we do hold the power within us to heal our lives.   The journey that has taken me to discovering my own healing potential was breast cancer.  It was not this journey alone that was my wakeup call.  It was a culmination of many years work prior to this diagnoses which is often referred to “peeling away the layers of the onion”.  Letting go of FEAR opened the door to my faith and belief in me - “Unconditional self love”.

Just as a flower needs to be planted in nourishing soil, given manure and fertilizer, watered regularly, have sunshine to grow.  We as humans need to do this for us as well. Placing yourself first, not in a vein way, but loving and nurturing YOU, is not selfish.  Often people, who judge, have not been taught this or women often use this message that it is Selfish to make you feel guilty.

Receiving is the balance of Giving.

We live in a balance world.

So fill up the vessel that is YOU.

How can you give to others if you are an empty vessel?

The best example is the oxygen mask on a plane they always tell you to put on yours first and then assist others. 

This passage came from a message from DailyOM to my inbox.  “A self-healing day should address the vital needs of the self as a whole while directing healing energy where it is needed most. Solitude is an important part of the process as is the ability to take refuge in a space that is both beautiful and peaceful. Start your healing day by setting the intention that you are dedicating this time to healing yourself. Flowers, candlelight, incense, and music can guide our focus toward a more tranquil state.”

Healing is about care.  Listening to that inner guidance that says “go for a walk, have a nap, draw a picture, sit and take some time to do what brings a smile to your face and be still”.  Since my own healing, especially this past 7 weeks while recuperating after my breast reconstruction surgery, I need to give my body time to heal.  Take time out; sit in the park, read a book, enjoy a chat on the phone or go for a walk this has been a challenge. 

I have been impatient that it is not happening fast enough.  This is the “ego mind” trying to be in charge.  When I let go of those thoughts, I am reminded by friends and messages from the Universe this is a time for REST. 

Being OK with where I am now is important because there is time for the rest to happen.  For now it is time to practice stillness and BEING.

Ros Clarkson – Findingurwings 

One moment in time...

Sharing my experiences through my journey has assisted me to be well. How I have chosen to handled the challenges has opened other peoples minds to a different way of thinking or being.  Do they think the way they have always done or something different?  Insight and choice.

I have enjoyed meeting many people along the journey. Shelly Wilson is a friend.  We have completed 4 chats on blogtalkradio "Believe in believing".  Click on the link and get to know us a little better.  Sit back, grab a cuppa and enjoy.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shellywilson/2011/12/06/life-enhancement-with-ros-and-shelly--segment-3

"Life is a roller coaster just got to ride it" ~

Find your wings and soar.

Ros